This past weekend was the first semi-vacation that I’ve had this summer and since I’ve delved into the real world of worse-than-college hangovers and paying bills like an actual human being. I definitely miss the glorious college days when I didn’t have to face the reality of being an adult yet, but I also can’t say that I haven’t learned a lot over these past few months as a graduate. Some of these things that I’ve learned (but not all) include:
- Starting to work on your 401K when starting that first “big-girl” job is a necessary evil
- Wine will always be there for you, but it’s even better when you get to share it with a roomie while laughing over the Bachelorette
- It’s more than okay to vent about this first “big-girl” job, but keep it within the privacy of your own home
- Boys are great, but they also suck sometimes- don’t rush yourself or anyone else into a relationship because that’s something that shouldn’t ever feel or start out in a rushed manner
- Budgeting is important, but it’s also okay to still be learning how to balance between paying for the bottomless guacamole at happy hour and the rest of the actual necessities you need to survive
- Don’t be afraid to get out of your comfort zone and lose a few more hours of sleep in order to meet new people
- Don’t compare yourself to co-workers- just do your best because it’s all you can do, right?
- Try your very best to take care of yourself in every way. For example…spend a few nights by yourself to eat takeout and binge watch Netflix or read a juicy book, drink a lot of water, eat breakfast AND veggies every day, and most importantly…sing out as loud as possible when you’re in the car or shower (it makes everything better, I promise)
As I said earlier, I learned a lot over the past few months and not everything came to me easily. It was a challenging summer, which is why this past Labor Day weekend was the perfect time for a little vacation with my family. On Friday morning, I flew into sunny San Diego to meet up with my sister (who lives there) and my parents, who would be flying in from the east coast as well. Upon my arrival, the feeling of breathing in the sweet (and invisibly polluted) California air was absolutely wonderful- I had landed in one of my favorite places, where the weather was perfect and I could finally be around what I believe to be the epitome of summertime: hot surfers and fish tacos. To say the least, the past weekend with my family was amazing yet far too eventful to be able to explain it all with the love and detail that’s deserved, which is why I’ve provided a small photo diary below for you to take a little peek at my trip. On Tuesday, taking off to fly back home across the country was more than depressing and I am STILL missing my family and the greatness of California. However, it is comforting to know that I’ll be returning to the beautiful state soon, whether it’s just for another visit or possibly even for a permanent move…who knows? Until then, I’ll be on the east coast and enjoying the beauty of the fall season that is now officially upon us- bring it on cozy sweaters and pumpkin spice lattes!
My views leaving D.C. and entering California from the sky
dressed too warmly upon my San Diego airport arrival
The beautiful morning and evening views from my Torrey Pines hotel room balcony
My first cloudless day on the San Diego Bay Beach!
The Veterans Memorial Cross at Mount Soledad
The beautiful lookout at Mount Soledad
Enjoying the breathtaking view of the city below…
Having a early morning family hike around the Point Loma tide pools
Looking dirty but feeling good on our hike!
Basking in yogi heaven
A cute family photo before the coastal walk in La Jolla
Beginning of the coast walk
A little cave exploring in La Jolla
Amazing view of the coast
The beautiful rose garden in Balboa Park
Balboa Park surroundings
The walk into town from Dog Beach
Picture perfect setting for a late summer wedding outside my room